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MY LITTLE FOODIE BABY

February 08, 2016

IMG_3336 IMG_3338 Hey oh. I think we have a developing foodie baby on our hands!

Ayla has been tasting solids for a few months now, and she has done so good at learning to eat a variety of foods and flavors…so far. I know that sometimes those little ones do decide to suddenly become picky eaters, but I’m crossing my fingers that she will stay a non-fussy foodie baby, hehe. We are still nursing four times a day, and her routine is wake up in the morning, nurse, and then some banana or oatmeal for second breakfast. We nurse again at lunch and then followed with second lunch with avocado or sweet potato puree and maybe some applesauce or pear puree. She nurses again around three thirty after her afternoon nap, and then she gets solids for a first supper when we sit down for our supper. Her final nursing happens right before bedtime at seven.

For the first few months of solids, we mostly gave her bananas, avocado, sweet potatoes, and applesauce. But lately I’ve tried to be more intentional about introducing a wider variety of flavors and foods to her because I actually do want her to become a little foodie who’s willing to try new things and has a palate for a range of flavors. We give her small samples of our own meals if it’s something she can swallow or moosh up easily with the two little toothies she has so far, and the little face she makes when she tries something new is too cute to us. She’s usually a good sport with something new, but when something doesn’t sit well on her palate, she gives the funniest little shudder and turns her face away when we try to give her more.

IMG_3332 IMG_3329 IMG_3325 IMG_3321 IMG_3313 A few days ago, I gave her bites of my pancakes and she loved it. She took the bigger pieces I gave her and mooshed it all up in her fingers before trying to put it in her mouth. And while half of it ended up in the high chair or on the floor, it’s cute to watch her try to learn how to put things in her mouth on her own. She’s growing up, changing right before our eyes, and it’s good and we love it.

What about you: what were/are some of your little ones favorite foods?

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

THE BEST QUESTION

February 04, 2016

IMG_2879 I’ve recently discovered a question that I’ve started to ask myself all the time and it has changed my life in a lot of ways. It’s the simplest one-word question, but it has such a big impact on my thoughts, feelings, and perspectives.

The question is: why?

WHY?

Why do I feel inadequate or stressed or anxious?
Why is my husband acting distracted or feeling worn down?
Why am I falling apart because dinner isn’t turning out like I want?
Why is my daughter acting fussy and needy?
Why am I so tempted to self-hate today?
Why do I want to react negatively to this person?
Why so I feel so unworthy or ashamed or like a second-rate woman?

Why why why.

I’ve found that when I ask myself the why question, it changes my perspective so quickly about something I’m feeling or how someone else is acting. The why takes me outside of the situation or the moment and lets me see what else is going on besides just what I can easily see, whether in my own heart or in the heart of the other person.

I feel inadequate, stressed, and anxious…because I’ve been letting accusations and judgment fill my head all day long.
My husband is distracted and worn down…because there’s a lot going on at work and we’ve been busy without much time for him to rest and reset.
I’m falling apart because of a failed dinner…because I wrongly demand perfection from myself.
My daughter is acting fussy or needy….because she’s not feeling well or I haven’t been spending enough time with her.
I am tempted to self-hate…because comparison is robbing me of my joy and I haven’t been intentional about stopping to hear the voice of Jesus telling me of all that I am.
I react negatively to that person…because I’m not looking past their brokenness and seeing into the place of hurt that they live from.
I feel unworthy and ashamed because I’ve stepped outside of my identity that is meant to be firmly rooted in Jesus Christ.

When I stop to see the why, I am able to step outside of the moment and see a much broader picture of what is really going on. When I can understand the why of all that is going on in my own heart or in the heart of someone else, I am able to offer grace so much deeper. Instead of getting frustrated with my husband for being distracted, I see why and that broader perspective enables me to take actions of love instead of feeling upset with him. When I understand the why when Ayla is fussy and needy, I’m enabled to again take actions of love to give her what she needs. And when I identify the why when my own heart is full of anxious thoughts, fears, and accusations, it enables me to take those things to Jesus so that He can set me free from them.

The why…it’s the best question!

What about you: do you find your own perspective changing when you ask yourself the why question?

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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I’m Alicia + follower of Jesus + wife to my incredibly wonderful husband + mama to my girls, Ayla, Aveline, Fleurie and Adella. I love motherhood + family + finding joy in the little things. Thanks for stopping by!

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