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THINGS I’VE LEARNED {the kitchen}

October 07, 2013

I’m a new wife, and obviously that means I spend a lot more time in the kitchen then I did when I was single. Not that I mind…the kitchen is actually one of my favorite places to be. Food is a kind of love language for me, and I love preparing meals and treats for my husband or guests.

Here are some things I’ve learned along the way:

– Utensils and gadgets can be handy-dandy, but if you don’t have exactly what you need at the time you need it, there is always a way to be creative and improvise (i.e. use a drinking glass for a potato masher, a canning jar to make fresh whipped cream, etc.)

– As annoying as it may be, it really does pay off to wash out those plastic baggies and re-use.

– It also pays to be sparse when using aluminum foil (apologies to my parents for the many times I’ve just ripped out way more than needed). That stuff is expensive.

– When making rice or other grains, always cook double what you need and freeze the extra portions. It’s always a nice surprise when you realize you don’t have to cook grains for that stir-fry in a few weeks.

– One of the best ways to make bacon is in the oven. It saves your stove from all the splatters and you can make a lot at a time. Preheat your oven to 425 degrees, pop those babies on a rimmed cookie sheet (I usually line with foil…not super frugal, but sure saves on the greasy cleanup), and bake for 20-25 minutes. Keep an eye on them and pull them out when they are looking slightly crispy. I like to do a whole package at a time and then put the cooked slices in the freezer. Super easy to pull out for sandwiches or omelettes!

– If, say, a pie crust that you were making for a fresh strawberry pie fails miserably, get creative and serve a dessert called deconstructed strawberry pie. Crumble the crust into a dish, and then serve each component of the pie separately. Let your guests create their own “pie” with crust, filling, and whipped topping. I think one of the worst things you can do if a dish doesn’t turn out is to overly focus your guests attention on it. Laugh about it, be creative, and everyone will enjoy.

– An easy way to use almost-gone produce is with a soup. Just chop up what you got, throw it in a pot with some chicken stock, add chicken or beef, and call it soup. A frittata is also an easy way to use up produce.

– Never freeze a whole, uncooked onion, unless you like mushy, soggy onion.

– If a dish isn’t turning out the way you want it to, do the cook’s cheat and throw on more bacon, cheese, or butter. Or all three, if you’re really desperate.

– If it’s suppertime and you have no inspiration, opt for a big ‘ole omlette + toast (or a frozen pizza…). Saute up some onions/peppers/mushrooms, pull out some bacon (already cooked, if you’re lucky), grate some cheese, and you’re set. Put extra bacon on the man’s omelette for bonus points.

– Recipes are merely ideas (except for baking…those are usually pretty necessary to follow). Find a recipe you want to make, but don’t feel like you have to follow it to a T. Add your own flair with different seasonings or cheese type or vegetables.

– We love leftovers so I always make a full recipe, instead of trying to cook for two. If the recipe is really big, there’s always the freezer! Pack up what you won’t eat that week and store it away until you need it.

– Taking time to plan out a dinner menu at the beginning of the week helps with grocery shopping and saving money. I find that if I just try to wing it and not make a plan, I end up having to scramble up some concoction to try to use what I have on hand. Which can be fun, but may get a little old having that random casserole dish every week.

The kitchen is a fun place (at least for me), but it is certainly a place that comes with a lot of hands-on lessons and mistakes. I can only imagine all the things I can add to the list of things learned twenty years from now.

Till then, happy cooking!

What about you: what kitchen lessons can you add to this list?

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

MADE FOR ANOTHER WORLD

October 04, 2013

Some days it’s so clear. Some days reality is so real.

Today I see it. It hit me as I was moping my kitchen floor (for some reason, I tend to think most clearly when I’m cleaning)…this life is just not “it.” This life is so temporary, so un-real, so small, compared to what is next.

I hear people that worry and fret about all the things going on and all the things to come…and sure, we all have those questions. But today I see, maybe more clearly than I ever have before, that there is nothing to fear. Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

Because what this world is, what this life is, is not what we are made for. We are made for the next life. We are made for a different kingdom. We are in a different kingdom. And because of that, the things that happen in this world are small. Politics, Obamacare, economic issues, wars and rumors of wars, sickness, and even death…none of these have to be feared. None of these have to give me cause to lay awake at night. Because I am not of this world.

I think certain desires are written on each of our souls: peace, rest, security, unending joy, quality relationships, perfect connection with God. I think all of humanity carries these desires inside, whether they recognize it or not. We get a taste of the fulfillment of these desires in this world…moments of peace, a great conversation with a friend or spouse, an evening of worship or time of prayer that fills our entire being with the presence of the Lord. But ultimately, I desire more. I desire that each and all of the things my soul longs for to be completely fulfilled, uninterrupted, forever and ever. I want to always feel – no, not merely feel, but know – peace, joy, security, the presence of the Lord, and absolute, overwhelming, everlasting joy. I won’t feel that in this world…but I will in the next.

None of this means that we just check out of life here and turn passive and just let it pass by with our heads buried in the sand. We are put here for a purpose…but we are put here for a season. And during that season, we should make everything we can out of the time and circumstances we are given.

So in times of uncertainty and anxiety, let the thought of your true reality, your true kingdom, give you peace. No matter what comes, you are safe. No matter what comes, you have the next world that is your true world.

Carry on, my friends!

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